Relationships are valuable to me because they encompass who I am, provide support and keep me grounded. My personal mind is very tumultous at times - I suffer from a moderate - to - severe anxiety disorder. Without a few very close, personal relationships I truly beleive I would not still be where I am. Through mutual respect and careful boundaries, those I love keep me focused on what matters, rather than overwhelming fears!!
First and foremost are my parents; they are amazing!! They have taught me the value of hard work, perseverance, dedication and true love! Happily married now for nearly 39 years, they have never "sugar-coated" lifes obstacles, which has always kept me grounded, realistic and open-minded
Second is my sister Jolene. She is never afraid to tell it like it is! Having the ability to speak your mind is a true gift and one my sister was blessed with. She is supportive but to the point and her respectful honesty has helped me through many hurdles in life.
One of my dear friends Jill; the artistic explorer, is also very important. I won't lie, I am a homebody, Jill's adventerous spirit helps keep my mind wrapped around all that is possible and potential. And, our hiking adventures create many memories, smiles and sunburns!
One big callenge to relationships is time. There never seems to be enough time, long enough weekends or nice enough weather to spend with those you love. Therefore, respect is an extremely important aspect of all relationships, especially to me. Being able to respect each others time and obligations without resentment is essential. Thankfully, I have that common ground rule with these key relationships.
I think that respectful boundaries are also very important in the professional realm as well. It is important to recognize how, what, when and where families want to be communicated with. For example; I once had a family that I new I could (and best) share information with only in the mornings. Their evenings were very hectic and busy. Knowing this allowed us to communicate without headache!
About Me
- Tammy
- I am a thirty one year old Montana gal. I am fiercely independent and enjoy quiet time just as much as I love to spend time with my friends and family!
The importance in a relationship is having your partner in life to be your rock. To be the one person you can count on 100% of the time. Life is one tough thing to get through. You need that alli on your side to be the one to pick you up, to get you through, to be the reason you wake up and try everyday as hard as you can.
ReplyDeleteHi Tammy,
ReplyDeleteI agree that the biggest challenges to relationships is time! The weeks fly by between work, school, running a home/farm and my family. However, everyone is just as busy and when we do get together we make it special!
Nice to meet you and the others. I look forward to class.
Kristi